Wilma Eats Her Words and History is Repeated...
Sequel to http://random-acts-of-stupidity.blogspot.com/2006/06/fred-is-crying-and-begging.html (and, if you want, http://random-acts-of-stupidity.blogspot.com/2006/06/i-love-your-motorcycle-not-you.html)
We're sad to report that Fred's crying and begging worked. Wilma took him back - in fact they spent that weekend in a motel about an hour from here. Then they started staying in a motel here in town because Wilma's mother wouldn't let Fred move back into her house. Wilma told her that if she was so worried about Fred and what might happen to Bam-Bam, then she should let him move in so she can keep an eye on him. Mom finally relented, but Wilma is searching for a place for her, Fred, and Bam-Bam to live.
Wilma also had the court date for child support continued. We asked her if she had noticed a pattern that every time a court date was imminent and Fred could go to jail that he always begs her to get back together. Her reply, "Yes, but I love him too much." We try to tell her that love in itself isn't enough. "But Bam-Bam wants his dad." "It's different this time." Whatever.
He offered to go work for "Bob" - but Wilma doesn't like "Bob" and told him he couldn't go work there. We told her that he's getting exactly what he wants. Court is continued so he doesn't have to pay or go to jail. He doesn't have to work. She's paying all of his living expenses.
We suspect that when these court dates for child support can't be continued any longer that Wilma gives Fred the money to pay then the state sends her the money back as child support from him.
We told her that when Bam-Bam grows up and starts treating women the way she's being treated that she can't say she doesn't know why - because she's taught him it's OK and normal. She said "He won't do that. He's a good boy." Yeah - right.
Our guess.... Off-again by end of summer at the latest.